
In the last 10 years in our culture the ethos of amateur basketball has morphed into, for elite players, a systemic on-ramp to professional basketball. There's a concocted cocktail almost scientific in its exactness that is supposed to at minimum land a prep a scholarship. Back in the day, and I know how this sounds, but back in the day your high school team was the primary vehicle for exposure. My college coach came to Diamond Bar high school and saw me play. He didn't come to some basketball factory with short courts and running time games. And this isn't to say that my day was better. I'm just saying I struggle to understand the obsession. There's opportunism in the eyes of people who have made lucrative business out of the basketball stage that used to be more formative and recreational. And there's the same opportunism in the hearts of parents who desperately want their athletes to excel.
I guess it worked for Shabazz Muhammad the Minnesota Timberwolves rookie recently sent home from the NBA rookie transition program. In fact, it works for enough guys, just enough guys to keep the amateur compulsion alive and well. And I get that. I get that keeping kids busy keeps them out of trouble and that skill mastery is likely when you repeat-rinse-and-repeat. But dude, you ain't got to lie to get your kid good. You ain't got to hold your kid back and reclassify him so that he's class of 2014 instead of 2013. Commit to the core virtues that make people great and the young bull will still develop. Trust me. Some things never stop working. Patience is a virtue and a developer of virtue.
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I think when parents do things like hold a kid back, or spend money to solve a problem they are teaching their kids that you can't do it on your own. You aren't good enough to succeed, and that success comes from manipulating not hard work.
My other concern is it is at the cost of their education, their values, and sometimes the cost could be their soul.
Parents underestimate the power of a good fight, finishing the race set before you.
And you can't get true wisdom unless you fear the Lord first.
Just a few of my thoughts.
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